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About Us

Beckster combines his 19 years of experience and unique approach to create and deliver The Beckster Lifestyle. Our mission is to change attitudes and to undo some of the bad work that has been done by others; to tear away the ugly mask of trickery and manipulation, and to make the pursuit of your most attractive self something that is thought to be attractive in itself - as it should be!


Far from being another “dating coach" company, The Beckster Lifestyle delivers practical advice and evidence based techniques founded around Beckster's 5 C's approach, focusing on confidence, congruency, calibration, courage and conviction. Through boot camps and residentials we help clients to realise the authentic positive attributes that live inside them, bringing about personal changesthat ultimately result in a more fulfilling and successful lifestyle. With almost two decades teaching both men and women from all walks of life, Beckster and his team is able to tailor his approach to the individual to ensure a bespoke experience. Get in contact today to find out how you can gain from our unique approach.

Beckster’s mantra is to be the best version of yourself in all aspects of your life, while always striving to improve further.  With over 18 years of development and self-improvement, Beckster has gained a vast array of skills, routines and approaches that allow him to show his students exactly how they can develop a more satisfying and fruitful lifestyle.

Before starting his journey, Beckster was an average guy working a nine-to-five job and had no meaningful connections with any individual in his live. Today, he has amassed almost two decades of experience training students and collaborating with some of the biggest names in the community including Mystery (star of VH1's 'The Pick-Up Artist'), Ross Jeffries (inventor of Speed Seduction), Neil Strauss (writer of 'The Game') and Tyler Durden (Co-founder of Real Social Dynamics). The skills he has gained over this time has helped him to find a wonderful group of close friends, a successful relationship and a lifestyle he is very happy with.

With an empathetic understanding of where many sticking points originate, he is proficient in delivering solutions that ensure a successful experience.  Beckster harnesses a blend of a calm demeanour and an energetic positivity, making him an approachable, yet powerful teacher who desires the best for each and every one of his student.

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